Marriage to the right person is wonderful. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. Or does this sound more like a conscious choice he's making not to get invested in this. I love my husband with my whole soul. We were "forced" to discuss things such as our deepest goals, desires, priorities, and for us, possibly most importantly, how we show love and also perceive that we are being loved. Take what you read with a grain of salt. I know that she's even getting her stuff ready to go on her mission. We have been together for almost 6 years, so I'm well aware of what I got into, but it can still be tough.
I recommend that talk. I don't see anywhere in your post where there is a complete commitment. If you're just shaken up and in need of a few stitches and work is busy, that means instead of rushing to your side immediately I might wait until my shift ends before showing up with takeout and flowers to look after you.
The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. Also, don't forget, some people just arent very good at conveying emotions. I am a something male. Then you might want to talk about all the things her church requires. My kids are now 14, 12 and When they were younger it was so hard to be alone and take care of them. This can be done. If you are willing to understand and accept these, whether or not you are a Mormon, you can have a fun time dating Mormon girls. I get that a lot to people saying 'be happy you married a doctor' 'u will have a glamorous wonderful life' they would not get it unless they be one-that is being a docs wife, the loneliness is the worst especially when your newly wedded and 2nd month of ur marriage he has to go for his night calls in dec, which includes our first christmas: I thought I was the only one who barely gets communication throughout the day, not married but am dating a surgeon and have for 6 years. I was lucky with my TBM. Well I have no choice.
They nicely include all the pictures we grew up with on how the book was translated and admit that isn't how it happened. When I was 19, my boyfriend considered himself an atheist. I wouldn't just give up, but be wary. With his compartmentalized mind, if I walk away, he will close that door and move on. This has been a good distraction when she's doing awkward shifts but coordinating time together can be difficult. She sounds so indoctrinated that like even if you try to get her to open up, who knows you might get like a BJ out of it doesn't sound like it but who knowsyou have to realize that a lifetime of conditioning will be set in motion in her mind that will make your life hell.
