A couple of years ago, I met a guy at my local bar, and as soon as I beat him at eight-ball, he said he liked my eyes. We went to his place and stumbled quickly into bed, and after he slipped something on, we got down to business. He squirmed a little as he entered, and I noticed that it was very small.
Of all the problems in our world, premature ejaculation seems like a small, almost irrelevant issue. That is, until you are dealing with ejaculating much too soon personally. Then the issue of premature ejaculation goes from irrelevant to the only thing on your mind.
My life in sex: 'It was clear my labia had been completely removed'
I had also started to realise that I had a bit of a problem. I suffered from severe premature ejaculation, which meant that most of my relationships were as short as the sex. My doubts about my ability to satisfy affected how I approached romance and I struggled to find ways to cope. The worst way was to be dismissive.
How, exactly do you define premature ejaculation? Does it mean a guy orgasms really fast, like within a few minutes, or does it mean he just climaxes before the woman does? And what if the woman takes an hour? Is he expected to just hold out?